Community Cuddles April 12 Boulder
Hosted by Kassandra Brown
🌿 Community Cuddles: A Gathering for Healing, Connection & Consent
In a world where we’re constantly connected through screens, we often forget one of the simplest forms of human connection — touch. Science and experience agree: consensual, caring touch can calm our nervous systems, ease loneliness, and help us heal. It can lower stress and blood pressure, release trauma, and deepen our sense of belonging.
That’s what Community Cuddles is all about — creating a safe, welcoming space to explore platonic, consensual touch in a structured, respectful environment.
Whether you’re craving connection, healing from past experiences, or simply curious, you’re invited to join us for this warm, heart-centered experience. No one is ever required to touch anyone — simply being present is enough.
💛 What to Expect
🕑 2:30 PM – Arrival & Setup
Settle in, help prepare the space with blankets and pillows, share snacks, and get comfortable.
🕒 2:45 PM – Welcome Circle (Required for all participants)
We’ll open the event with grounding, introductions, and a consent and boundaries workshop. This is where we practice how to ask for — and give — clear, verbal “yes” or “no” responses.
(If you’d like, you can attend just the Welcome Circle — no touch required.)
🕓 3:45 – 5:30 PM – Open Cuddling
Once the container is set, we enter open cuddle time. You may cuddle, sit quietly, or simply observe — all choices are valid. Remember: you must ask and receive a verbal “yes” before touching anyone.
🕠 5:30 – 5:45 PM – Closing Circle
We’ll wrap up by sharing reflections and gratitude before packing up together.
🕕 5:45 – 6:00 PM – Clean Up & Goodbyes
Help fold blankets, finish snacks, and say farewell (or plan your next cuddle adventure!).
🌸 Event Guidelines
Arrive on Time:
Please arrive before the Welcome Circle — this ensures everyone understands the rules and feels safe. You may leave anytime after.
Come Clean & Scent-Free:
Shower, brush your teeth, and skip perfumes, essential oils, and smoke smells. Your natural, clean self is perfect.
Stay Sober:
No drugs or alcohol before or during the event.
Dress Comfortably:
Think cozy, not sexy — pajamas, sweatpants, or yoga clothes. Please remain clothed (at least shorts and a t-shirt) throughout.
Bring:
Snacks to share, blankets, pillows, or anything that helps you feel cozy. The only required thing to bring is a clean, sober you.
💬 Cuddling with Strangers?
It’s normal to feel nervous! You might wonder:
- “What if I don’t want to be touched?”
- “What if I say yes and change my mind?”
- “What if someone says no to me?”
All of that is okay. This is a space to practice asking for what you want and saying no when you need to. You’ll never be pressured to touch anyone — ever. Most people arrive a little anxious and leave feeling peaceful, joyful, and deeply connected.
🎟️ Tickets & Logistics
- Tickets: Purchase via Eventbrite (no need to print).
Need to pay cash or request financial assistance? Email kassandra@kassandrabrown.org or text 720-340-2246 — no one will be turned away for lack of funds. - Cancellations: If we need to cancel due to weather, illness, or other unforeseen events, your ticket will be valid for any future Community Cuddles within 6 months.
Location:
Private residence near Valmont & Airport Roads, Boulder.
(Exact address provided in your ticket email.)
👐 Our Community Guidelines
(Inspired by the principles of CuddleParty.com)
- The event is always non-sexual — in words, energy, and behavior.
- Speak up or move if you feel uncomfortable — for any reason.
- Clothes stay on at all times.
- You never have to touch anyone.
- Ask permission and receive a clear verbal “yes” before touching.
- “Yes” means yes, “No” means no, and “Maybe” means no for now.
- You can change your mind anytime.
- All emotions — laughter, tears, stillness — are welcome.
- Respect everyone’s privacy outside the event.
- Keep the cuddle space tidy. No one likes to cuddle in a puddle!
🌻 Join the Community
Stay connected and hear about future events:
👉 Community Cuddles Meetup Group
This is a Community Cuddles event (not an official CuddleParty.com gathering). To find certified Cuddle Parties, visit CuddleParty.com.
✨ Community Cuddles is about trust, consent, and belonging — healing one cuddle at a time. Come as you are, and leave a little lighter.