Cuddle Land
Hosted by Lu Dakini
A Platonic Touch + Connection Gathering
You know that relaxing feeling when someone scratches your back, plays with your hair, gives you a scalp massage, or simply holds you for a little while? That’s the kind of magic we’re exploring here.
Cuddleland is a space to slow down, practice asking for what you want, explore your boundaries, and experience nourishing human connection with platonic expectations.
Cuddleland is 100% platonic, fully clothed, and consensual. Participation is always optional.
What to Expect 🩷
We’ll begin with grounding and a few playful exercises around consent, communication, and asking for the touch you want.
From there, we’ll explore optional partnered touch activities like hand or foot massages, back scratches, hair play, comforting touch, and other connection games.
We’ll end with open cuddle time, where you can cuddle, exchange massage, chat, rest together, or simply enjoy the cozy atmosphere.
❗️There is never an expectation to touch or cuddle anyone.
😍 Newbies are absolutely welcome. You don’t need any experience with cuddle spaces or intentional touch.
Cuddleland Agreements
🫂 Participate at the level that feels comfortable for you.
🗣️ Get a verbal yes before touching someone.
💗 Ask for what you want and say no to what you don’t.
✨ You can change your mind at any time.
👚 Clothing stays on and touch remains platonic. No swimsuit areas.
🌿 Arrive free from alcohol and mind altering substances.
🤫 Keep who is here and what is shared confidential.
Most importantly, “no” is a perfectly acceptable response. You never owe anyone touch, cuddling, or an explanation.
Prepare for Arrival
🛀 Please arrive freshly showered and groomed.
🌸 Avoid heavy fragrances or strong scents.
👚 Wear clean, soft, comfortable clothing.
🧸 Feel free to bring a favorite pillow, blanket, or comfort item. Tea, water, pillows, and blankets will also be available.
Accessibility: There are stairs in the space.
Location: A private home cuddle studio in North Austin. Address provided after registration.
Cuddleland is about softness without pressure, affection without expectation, and connection without obligation.
Come comfy. Come curious. Come soften a little. 🫂